GENERATIONAL GAP
By Darin Skaggs
SPOILERS!
They say you never know what you got until
it’s gone. You can never really
appreciate something and especially someone until they are no longer in your
life. Yasujiro Ozu’s Tokyo Story takes that idea and runs with
that feeling through a two and half hour film.
The film is about an older couple that are
going to visit there adult children. At
the beginning they are excited to see their children, which make you feel happy
for them. The kids on the other hand do
not seem too excited, they are busy with work and their own children to even
plan well for their parents trip. The
parents arrive and try to have a good time, but they are left at home to wait
and sometimes just go out on their own.
A week passes and it is time for them to go back. They are unsatisfied with the trip. The mother starts to mention that she does
not feel well. Then sometime on their
way back the mother dies. The rest of
the film is spent trying to get over the guilt of not appreciating their mom.
The film is genius by just setting up the
relationship of the parents and their children.
There is no build up to the mother’s death. The first half of the film is interactions
between the family. When the scene is a
parent with one or more of the children, they are trying to have a good time,
but when it is just the children interacting they complain about the
parents. This is strange and awkward to
watch, this family is not really falling apart but just going through the
motions. Though without these scenes, the
film does not get its payoff with the finale.
By the time the parents leave the older
children are relieved, the youngest is left empty handed and the parents hold nothing
but disappointment. Then just like life
the unexpected happens. Their mother is
gone. She has passed away, you feel the
sadness and the fact they know they could never talk to their mom again and say
sorry for treating her poorly or say how much she meant to them. These characters are the same from before;
the only thing that has changed is that they are filled with more regret.
One of the most effective and moving scenes
comes near the end with the father. He has
returned home after the funeral. The
entire movie he has never shown emotion and not let people know that something
has bothered him, even to his wife to some extent. Until the last scene where a neighbor comes
and sees how he is holding up after his wife’s funeral. He says he’ll be fine and that it will be
lonelier, but saying it with his regular expression. Then the neighbor bids him farewell and walks
off. The father then, for the first time
as long as we have known him, looks down and gives the slightest frown. This conversation and small facial movement
is so telling of what this man has gone through and how much of his emotion he
has been hiding for his family.
This film is all about family; what makes
them good and what can make them bad. It
is a film that makes you pick up the phone seconds after it finishes and call
your mom or someone in your family. It’s
one of the most heartbreaking tales in the history of cinema. It will keep you thinking long after the film
ends.